Most of the people who I follow on social media are very opinionated. They know what they think is best and they are willing to argue with anyone who disagrees. Most of us hold our opinions tightly and view any holes or gaps with great worry - doing whatever we can to hide and suppress them from the public. I'm beginning to believe that the root cause for much of the hate, anger and disagreement in our society today is due to our unwillingness to consider that we may be wrong.
Over the past few years I have considered an array of opinions. Growing up in a traditional southern Republican household, I naturally began by considering the ideas of those on the far left. I was very interested in Bernie Sanders, universal health care, socialism - even Hillary Clinton for a minute. But I didn't stop when I first heard an argument that sounded good. I began seeking out opposing viewpoints. And I found them.
As I continued to read and listen - I continued to find individuals who were glad to explain what they thought (knew) was best and why. What I didn't find was people who were willing to discuss in much detail alternative opinions. Any suggestion becomes an attack which is met with strong defense. I don't like that.
I'm not saying that we should all loosely hold ideals and be tossed to and fro by the winds and seas - but I am requesting that all of us be willing to dialogue - and to do so genuinely. As long as we paint those on "the other side of the isle" as radicals we will continue to see a deepening divide in our country. You can think that my ideas are ridiculous and even tell me so - as long as you can explain why - and be willing to step into these shoes for a few minutes - and I promise to do the same.
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